THE REAL “BIRTHERS” STEP FORWARD

2009 November 9

womens-health1Listening to the babble that came from the House floor on Saturday, the so-called “debate” that was nothing but partisan rhetoric, I was fascinated by the hatefulness and contempt that spewed forth each time a female member attempted to make her case against the Stupid Stupak Amendment. Talked over, shouted down, interrupted by assholes who refused to allow them to finish a sentence in framing their argument.

Rumors that the final vote would eventually defeat this amendment were just that. In the end the Repubs voted exactly as I would have suspected but were joined by feckless Dems who were acting on behalf of – wait for it – the Catholic Church! This religious body of men, the same men who oppose condoms to prevent the spread of AIDS, the same group who played “shuffleboard” in the assignment of pedophile priests some years back,the same enclave who threatened excommunication to members of congress, or candidates running for office who stood in favor of choice, declared “war” on the separation of church and state by advising and directing the outcome. When they received praise from a congressperson for their support, I knew then and there that theocracy was gaining ground throughout this nation. No longer can we turn away from this insidious implosion, nor can we stand firmly behind the fact that the “fundies” have gained ground in their attempts to turn this country into “a Christian nation” on their own. With the assistance of those congressional officeholders of both parties, women have been relegated to the dung heap of history by fiat.

Make no mistake about it: this is where we have been heading for a long time. Roe v Wade is no longer the issue it once was. Step by step, in each and every state across this nation, the fundies have united to seek legislation that would ban outright, or hamper widely, the right of a woman to choose her own destiny. States rights has trumped the Supreme Court selection through immediate and determined efforts to withhold equality towards women from the grass roots on up. It is truly frightening to watch as there seems to be little “push back” to these tactics and we cannot look to the White House to speak out on behalf of the population. The Right has not lost its edge as has been reported, but gained strength from this inaction instead.

The blogs are alive with varied reactions. The Left, for the most part, is celebrating this vote as a win for the Obama administration and Nancy’s ability to overtake the opposition by a mere 4 votes. Hurray for us! Yet overlooked in this debacle are the sights and sounds of open discrimination against women who have fought for decades in their quest for equality. The muted silence and the soft declarations emanating for groups like NOW and NARAL is revolting. These so called feminist brigades have been absent for years and continue to be so. They actively supported Obama as the “new face of feminism” and he did what he usually has done by turning his back on them just as he has with other groups who looked to him for the “change” he promised when seeking their support.

The Right is decrying the outcome as would be expected but they are mollified in the solace that the Stupak Amendment has provided. Their ranks have been so infiltrated by the religious nutjobs we have all come to loathe, nonetheless their message has resonance. Where else can these disaffected women go than to turn rightward the next time an election is held, particularly if a woman candidate is presented by the GOP, regardless of her ideology or positions? Is this not the way to send the “message” to the Democratic Party that we have been let down? It is not too farfetched to imagine this happening especially from those who see Sarah Palin as the future standard bearer of the GOP owing in large part the cult of personality that surrounds her. Cult of personality was what got us Obama in the first place, a man whose background signified little by way of equality or defense of women’s rights. Instead we were supposed to climb onboard and “hope” that the blank page he exhibited would be enough to guarantee those rights would be upheld. A Palin presidency would be the last chapter for the total disaster this nation should seek to avoid. But I fear it could happen.

What occurred in the well of the House was a prediction of what we can expect going forward. The stranglehold of the GOP by intimidation and the loosening of the Dems resolve to protect human rights as their platform has proclaimed.

The last chance is the Senate who will hopefully extract that amendment but don’t hold your breath. When was the last time we have been treated to a policy that actually acted on behalf of the nation that has not been corrupted or rammed down our throats?

Obama, the leader of this administration, is a dud! When leadership calls he is usually absent. We can no longer look to the Dems as protectors. They are too busy selling their souls. They have abandoned the principles of what that party once stood for. Guaranteeing this wishy washy president a “win” at any cost is what this amounts to.

A very vocal and a very big “Fuck you” from me to all those who wish to defend this “empty suit” as he meanders through history doing as little as possible to effect those whom he leads. The pretzel twisting of logic, the myriad of excuses, the “give him time” effort to make him into something he has never been or never will be has lost the magic.

He has opened the door to the Right who will make the most of his weaknesses and they will climb back into the power seat with little effort the next time around. My biggest fear will be realized and for that we can thank this indifferent congress and the hopeless man elected to lead.

23 Responses leave one →
  1. 2009 November 9
    taggles permalink

    Pat, I read on one of the vote for any woman sites just how badly the democrats sold out, with nary a peep about the Republicans. That is where things get twisted, imho. All this holding dems feet to the fire (which I think is a good thing) without looking at the repubs shameless abuse of womens rights and making excuses to vote for them is a sham. It’s the old okey doke.

    Great post!

    Obama is feckless. He is the ultimate “bi partisan”, “non partisan” “common ground” “sell out” “stand for nothing” politician. It’s two faced of the “new feminists” to criticize him for it, when it is they who are using the exact same tactic. They are both selling out principles.

  2. 2009 November 9
    Pat Johnson permalink

    The Repub Party, regardless of how much they say about their irrelevance, is gaining support. We can point out the folly of their platform but most of those leaning in that direction are either infiltrators bent on taking advantage of the disaffected or people from the outset who were sympathetic to the GOP positions.

    This is where Obama has let everyone down. By refusing to have a passion for at least one issue he campaigned on, he has backed away from every promise that elevated him into the WH. Weakness is what they smell.

    But I am sick to death of those supporters who keep arguing on his behalf as if the rest of us are unable to see the emptiness of his words and promises and are just to blind or stupid to agree. He is useless and any slight hope I held that he could turn this to our advantage has slipped away entirely.

    As far as I am concerned, he is nothing more than a figurehead doing the bidding of his masters. For that we all suffer the consequences.

  3. 2009 November 9
    taggles permalink

    Pat, not much there to disagree with. I am just always careful, not because we here at wired left fall for the RW bs, but the constant drumbeat of how bad the dems are right now (which I think is necessary and good and we should and need to continue to criticize) can be and is twisted into support for the GOP by some in their mind and action. Or on the other hand, some who think we really are the GOP and want to fling insults our way. When all we are trying to do is hold on to liberal values. But we are swimming up stream against two forces.

    I guess I am being overly cautious, I am not sensitive about it. but I see what has happened and how things have been turned on their heads over the last two years.

  4. 2009 November 9
    taggles permalink

    I love your post and think it’s right on!

  5. 2009 November 9
    Pat Johnson permalink

    The Dems are bad but that drumbeat we hear are primarily from those who have no sense of history or political background to frame an argument around.

    Sarah Palin, short of outfitting herself in neon, has openly proclaimed where she stands when it comes to reproductive and gay rights issues yet some of these people are quite happy to declare support without looking at long term consequences.

    A lot of this is based on the “cult of personality” that surrounded the ascension of Obama yet they refuse to consider that same trigger response. Ask a Palin supporter why they stand behind her and you get the same response that she “saved Alaska”, and was beat up by the press or something close to that effect.

    Amazing.

  6. 2009 November 9
    Pat Johnson permalink

    cinie: Once again hitting it out of the ballpark.

    http://cinie.wordpress.com/2009/11/08/timid-feminism-timidism/#more-9973

  7. 2009 November 9
    taggles permalink

    Cinie knows where it’s at! And she does it with snararama! Love it!

  8. 2009 November 9
    Cinie permalink

    Thanks, guys. I just can’t wrap my head around who, besides the insurance companies, benefits from the passage of healthcare reform in its current incarnation. What do the American people get in return for selling out women’s rights? A government-mandated requirement to buy insurance? How does that work with so many un- and under-employed? Do unemployment checks come with Medicare cards? Do they deduct the cost of healthcare like taxes? Or, do you have to prove you bought insurance before you can get benefits?

  9. 2009 November 9
    Lori permalink

    I can’t figure out who thinks that Americans are going to feel good about being forced to buy insurance from private companies. I guess they’re looking at the polls in Massachusetts, but I don’t think you can use that state as a template for the rest of the US.

  10. 2009 November 9
    taggles permalink

    I do wonder about the constitutionality of federally mandating citizens to purchase a product from a private entity. States do it all the time. But for the fed gov’t I think this is a first.

  11. 2009 November 9
    taggles permalink

    Can anyone here think of anything like it?

  12. 2009 November 9

    I apologize in advance for this lengthy recollection, but I think it’s important. I am Canadian as you all know, and what happened to me, happened in the very early days of the Universal health passage in my country – back in the 70’s).

    I’ve recounted this story twice in my life, but this seems an appropos time.
    I found myself pregnant – at 27 years old, and in a (at that time) stable relationship/marriage of 7 years. I wanted to get pregnant, yet when I did, I knew instinctively something was wrong – it was the way my body responded, and the feelings that engendered. I talked to my doctor, and to the ob-gyn specialist (who was also at that time the Head of Obstetrics at the hospital where I was to give birth, who gave me the most brutal physical examination I have ever had or will ever allow in future – and frankly, I think he liked the brutality, the SOB). I was told that I was just subject to first time jitters. They didn’t listen to me – patriarchy at it’s finest. I kept telling them, they kept ignoring me. I wanted an abortion (which had just been made legal here and contending with all the ongoing protests of those that have nothing better to do with their lives). They brought in my husband to convince me otherwise, and although I had opened my heart to him and he had agreed, once he got the big time doctors he switched sides – carry it through and I finally gave up. Throughout my pregnancy, I knew that something was wrong, very wrong, but not one person listened to me. After all, I was only the silly female subject to hormonal imbalances and depressive tendencies, so why should they pay attention. Hormones, ya know.
    Internally, something died in my psyche, vecause I knew that I didn’t matter to anyone as me, only as they wanted me to be and as a receptacle. Trust me, June Cleaver I was not, but I wasn’t Cher either.
    Anyway, they didn’t do any ultrasounds (expensive) and the day I went into labor, everyone was out voting, so I spent 30 hours in labor (mind you, I didn’t go to the hospital until the pains were 2 minutes apart cause I had other things to do) Anyway, when they finally got around to my delivery they put me out after two minutes, and the last thing I heard was “Ohmigod, classic case. I gave birth to conjoined twins that could never be separated – they shared one heart, one circulatory system. There were other soul debilitating situations that ensued, such as me arranging for the burial (they were born live and I had to made the arrangements), having my parents fall apart, as well as my brother escaping prison custody with me as an excuse, having my formerly loving husband fall apart, mother’s suicide attempts cause she thought she hadn’t been pious enough, father’s tacit suicide attempts by drinking nonstop, divorce because we could never connect again – you name it, I could write a soap opera. The ridiculous thing is that this happens all the time, and no one pays any attention. Had I been sensible enough to get an abortion at the time (and of course to keep it secret), perhaps it would have changed things. Perhaps not.

    The point is that one should have a choice, and if it has to do with one’s own body, then how the hell does it involve anyone else.
    These A’holes who advocate for whatever is the flavor of the month morality play are responsible for more crimes and grief and if you tally up the number of victims (of course they don’t keep stats on illegal abortions and the cascade affect, but if they did?) I suspect that their killing field would be in the upper hundreds of thousands. Perhaps that should be part of the rhetoric – the killing field of anti-female rights.

    If this piece of sheit passes through the senate, or becomes part of the sheit that passes through the senate, women are royally screwed and permanently relagated to subservience status. Just my opinion of course, but this is diabolical.

  13. 2009 November 9
    cleffnote permalink

    Pat,

    I’m glad you made a distinction between fundies and the rest of us. I do hope that we never use the word Christian and fundie in the same sentence again, the two are very, very different. It is not Christians who have brought this on us. Real Christians believe in a complete separation of church and state. Jesus said, render unto Caesar that which is Caesar’s.

    For the rest of this, Hillary wanted a mandate that we all purchase insurance. I think that’s a good thing, but only if it includes the public option, without that available to purchase for everyone, this sucks. What I really want is Medicare for all, anything less sucks.

  14. 2009 November 9
    Pat Johnson permalink

    cleffnote: Sorry if you took offense at folding Christians and fundies into the same mindset but from what I gather, the Faith Based Initiative, alive, well, and expanded, share the same umbrella of cooperation IMHO.

    Just for the record, I am a Roman Catholic, raised, educated, and indoctrinated by the church since I was baptized. My disgust with their behavior and their insertion into a public policy when they too have a lot of sludge left on their own plate, is against my conscience rule.

    It is truly the Christian Right and their myriad of religions that hold sway. As fellow Christians, we must and should decry this separtion of church and state as we both recognize that it is happening.

  15. 2009 November 9
    carolinenotakennedy permalink

    HT, Your story is heartbreaking. I must say that on a much smaller scale I have experienced the same attitudes that you faced. Never being one to complain much about pain or sickness, I couldn’t understand why (on very rare occasions) Dr.’s thought I was making stuff up. I never was and was proved right in the end. Same as you, my husband believed in them, over me until I was proven right. No one should ever disregard the feelings of the patient.

  16. 2009 November 9

    Thanks Caroline, but I’m only one of millions of stories, as your own indicates. You may have not faced the same situation, however, you felt the same feeling of total abandonment because NO ONE LISTENED. That is the toxic result of women relegated to being CHATTELS, rather than intelligent, thinking, feeling humans.
    This morning, I told my son (yes, I tried again, twelve years later, and by myself) about the situation regarding women’s rights being stripped. His response was “We live here, not there, and it can never happen here.” When I exposulated about the crazies from down there already up here, he said “Mom, I’m glad you won’t live to see it, but you have my word that I’ll do whatever is required to prevent it”. Now, how bleeping sad is that? This is 2009, not 1979. Our sons and daughters are now fighting the same fights that we did – forty years ago – and that includes GLBT rights. Will this nightmare never end?

  17. 2009 November 9
    la-t-da permalink

    Cinie said, “I just can’t wrap my head around who, besides the insurance companies, benefits from the passage of healthcare reform in its current incarnation.”

    I know most of the time following the money works, but I think it time that we seriously consider who benefits from a Fundamentalist perspective. They are “doing the work of the Lord.” “The fruits of their labor” are paying off. Their job is to “bring morals back to America” and deny pro-choice and homosexuals a “foothold in America”. They have organized and worked methodically since R v W. The average follower of Fundamentalism who is politically engaged will find “reward in Heaven.” These people are not nut jobs. They committed to a job and they are doing it.

    I also agree with cleff. Fundamentalist are not Christians. While I continue to say, “Screw the Fundies” from my perspective and experience and research, I hope you will continue to educate on the difference from a Christian perspective, cleff. As I have said to you before, your voice as a Christian confronting Fundamentalism can be heard in more circles than my heathen voice.

  18. 2009 November 9
    la-t-da permalink

    To follow up my last comment: I think it best we consider not thinking of them as only right wing. I think we just got a pretty good whiff that Fundamentalist come in left and right varieties.

  19. 2009 November 9
    taggles permalink

    HT, thank you for telling your story here. I’m just home from work and have thought about you all day, but couldn’t write a proper response.

    ((((HT))))

    What a horror, you and your family were put through. It is all so senseless. Your story is one of the main reasons I make choice a big part of my decision when deciding whom to vote for.

    Thank you so much for sharing.

  20. 2009 November 9

    Taggles – (((((taggles)))) right backatcha. I normally lurk and don’t come out of the bush to comment very much, but this latest abomination brings back so many memories – none of which are good. My tale is far worse that what I’ve written, far worse, and all because I didn’t feel I had a choice. Had I felt I had a choice, I would have saved myself and all of my family and friends so much grief.

    People have no idea, until it happens to them, but by then, it’s too late, and the anger, the grief, the self doubt and recriminations are so overwhelming – it’s destructive.
    I am now a strong woman. I had two wonderful children out of “wedlock”, literally by myself because I could never again trust another person to be a true partner. I have worked damned hard to raise my two to be responsible, contributing partners in society, and darned if I didn’t do a fine job!

    Insofar as the abomination that passed the house – it puts me in mind of Margaret Attwood’s “The Handmaid’s Tale”. If you haven’t read it, do so. If you have, then you’ll understand.

    American women and GLBT people are so screwed. I’m just praying that the infection stays down there, and doesn’t spread up here. I’m past child bearing age, but being an old preggie, my children are just past 20, and I don’t want to think about them being back in the prison that I experienced back in the 60-70’s.

  21. 2009 November 9
    taggles permalink

    You know HT, life isn’t easy sometimes, but when we can get through the bad times, scars and all, and come out pretty much on top, we know we aint that done bad!

    As for the “infection staying down here”, I don’t have much to add that except maybe a good doctor could prescribe something for us, if only Americans would just take the damn medicine!

    We won’t, so it’ll prolly spread! YUCK! LOL

    POOR CANADA!

  22. 2009 November 9
    taggles permalink

    new post

  23. 2009 November 9
    la-t-da permalink

    HT, I am so sorry that you had to have that experience when in an alternative reality none of your family or you would have to had any kind of unchosen experience that alters souls.

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